I call my now-8-year-old son Ari many things.
I don’t even think I’ve said this expression out loud to anybody – ever.
In fact this is the first time I’ve ever expressed this “Reset Button” concept anywhere.
But I’ve felt the feeling of my son as my “Reset Button” for many years now.
It means I can forgive any of my past forehead-slapping blunders and crappy challenges which occurred before my son was born.
If I didn’t do (or not do) whatever transpired before I gave birth to my son, well, then I’d never give birth to my son.
And so I think of my son as my “Reset Button.”
His birth erases all regret about blunders and challenges from before August 2010 (when he arrived into this world).
I had to stumble, have my heart broken, do dumb-ass business mistakes, make idiotic real estate moves.
All of these messy events were necessary in order to create a shambly glass-shattered path which led me to my Magical hug-giver, funniest boy in the world, kindness rockstar, miracle child.
What are your “Reset Buttons”?
Do you acknowledge your “Reset Buttons” with the appropriate gratitude and revelry?
Have you properly used your “Reset Buttons” to erase any nagging doubts about why things had to happen as they did?
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